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“When they said it was going to be a girl, I cried with happiness.” Voronezh residents who lost their daughter in a traffic accident have become parents again Posting in CHAT: Russia A few months ago, a daughter, Miroslava, was born into the family of Ivan and Svetlana Medvedev from the Nizhnedevitsky district. She became their third child; their first daughter Lisa died almost five years ago in a terrible accident. Read about how Ivan and Sveta were able to survive the death of their beloved baby and how a long-awaited miracle appeared in their family in the material of RIA Voronezh. Social network acquaintances Ivan and Svetlana have been together for more than 10 years. . . Their love story began when they met online. "We have mutual friends". They suggested writing to my friend Svetlana. I found her page. I saw in the photo an expressive look, a lively smile. In general, I liked it right away. She wasn’t even frightened by the fact that she lived in Mordovia. I couldn’t stand it and wrote, she answered me almost immediately,” says Ivano. The young people talked day and night, and six months later they decided to meet. Svetlana arrived in Voronezh. Ivano says that the time spent together flew by in an instant: “When she left, it was hard - I realized that I could no longer live without her. A few weeks later I couldn’t stand it and ran to Mordovia,” the man recalls. – Sveta was surprised to see me on the threshold of her house. And I immediately said that I came for her, they say, pack your things. Well, she packed her things, and I took my lover with me. The couple got married, and on August 15, 2014, their daughter Lisa was born, whom the young parents liked. “Her birth was the happiest event in our lives,” admits Svetlana. A few years later, the long-awaited son Elisha was born. “I always dreamed of a big, friendly family, and children make married couples happy.” Therefore, we raised a daughter and a son, dreamed of another child and were happy,” the woman recalls. Accident The serene life of the family was destroyed by a car accident. On August 15, 2019, the couple and their children went to Voronezh. visited relatives, and when they returned home, a car crashed into their car. "It was our baby's birthday." Our relatives wanted to congratulate us, and we went to them. At home we prepared a surprise for Lisa - we decorated the room beautifully with balls and toys. When we were returning, we were stuck in traffic. It was only a five-minute drive to the house,” says Ivan. - Suddenly - bam! Our car flew away and overturned. I felt severe pain, but remained conscious. He immediately pushed Sveta, who was sitting next to her, away from the car. She screamed for me to save my son and daughter. He ran to the children. He picked up his son and carried him. to his wife. When I returned for Lisa, I immediately realized that something was wrong with her. The child was tightly squeezed between the seats. I was seized with wild panic, but I pulled myself together and tried to move the seat back to free my daughter . Together with passers-by who came running to help, he freed Lisa, hugged her, lay down on the side of the road and lost consciousness. The ambulance doctors arrived and pronounced the girl dead. Svetlana was provided with medical assistance. Ivan was taken to the hospital. “My daughter’s life was cut short on her fifth birthday. She was a fighter by nature and never cried. Even if she was hurt or scared,” says Ivano. “Almost immediately after the operation, I left the hospital to take Lizochka on her last trip. At home, grieving parents could not enter the room decorated for a children's party for a long time. The driver responsible for the accident was initially given a 3-year suspended sentence. But after the couple’s appeal, the case was reviewed and sentenced to 2.5 years in prison to be served in a general regime colony. “The wife stopped talking” After the death of their daughter, Svetlana and Ivan did not immediately find strength in themselves. return to life During this period, their relatives and colleagues helped them a lot. – The wife fell silent. I couldn't get a word out of her. He was very worried, constantly tried to distract him, persuaded him to take a walk with his son. And it helped us. True, we had to go only late in the evening, so that no one would see us: hearing words of sympathy and condolences from fellow villagers was unbearably painful. Although we knew that they did it with all their hearts,” admitted Ivano. Time passed, Svetlana began to work, came to her senses a little, and she again had a desire to live. The couple was thinking about a third child. “We prayed that God would give us the opportunity to once again experience the happiness of being the parents of a girl,” says Svetlana. A great little miracle, Svetlana Medvedeva walked towards her cherished goal - to become. mother for the third time in four long years.” We never gave up hope. And a miracle happened! Finally I got pregnant. To say that this became a great happiness for us is to say nothing. We dreamed of a daughter, although a boy would have been a joy for us. And when the ultrasound showed that it would be a girl, I simply cried with happiness,” says the heroine of the publication. Time passed quickly while waiting for the baby. The parents were preparing to welcome the baby - they bought a stroller, things and a crib. The long-awaited child was born in January. “I experienced incredible feelings when I first saw her. On the one hand, I sadly recalled how I held our little angel Lizonka in my arms. “We will always remember her... And at the same time, I was very happy about the recently born baby. Our youngest daughter became our joy and salvation from sadness. She was born as beautiful as a doll. Probably all parents say this about their children,” Svetlana smiles and never tires of repeating that she is the happiest mother. Joyful tasks Parents spent a long time choosing a name for their baby. At first they wanted to name the newborn Zlata, but then they decided on the name Miroslav: “It is symbolic and sounds proud – “Glory to the world.” And my family liked it,” said Svetlana. Her mother and aunt came to Sveta’s release from the maternity hospital. And they didn’t tell anyone in advance - they decided to make it a surprise. According to the happy parents, the eldest son Elisha really liked it. in love with little Miroslava: the boy happily looks after and talks to her. With the advent of the baby, many problems appeared in the family, but Svetlana claims that it is not at all difficult for her: “I am already an experienced mother.” Miroslava is growing, sleeping and eating well. Now it's warmer, and the whole family is walking. Svetlana and Ivan said that without each other it would have been difficult for them to get over what happened. The tragedy brought the family together, and life showed that it doesn’t matter, we must love and believe in miracles. Noticed a mistake? Select it with the mouse and press Ctrl+Enter Source link Source link